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		<title>By: stress management techniques</title>
		<link>http://staceyshipman.com/2009/11/06/stress-still-high-in-adults-and-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-151</link>
		<dc:creator>stress management techniques</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 07:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stress is on the rise in kids and adults. Managing it doesn&#039;t have to be time consuming, but it&#039;s necessary for your health and well-being.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stress is on the rise in kids and adults. Managing it doesn&#8217;t have to be time consuming, but it&#8217;s necessary for your health and well-being.</p>
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		<title>By: Stacey Shipman</title>
		<link>http://staceyshipman.com/2009/11/06/stress-still-high-in-adults-and-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-134</link>
		<dc:creator>Stacey Shipman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 13:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Karl - Agreed, it&#039;s not easy. In our fast paced lifestyles, taking a time out seems counterintuitive.  When really that&#039;s what we need to do.  It is definitely part of work happiness!

Hi Evita - I know it&#039;s the kids part that kills me too.  A shift, or wake up call is definitely needed to make any modifications or decrease stress (or turn it into the positive)

Tess - I love writing, too. My bookshelf is filled with journals!  Simplicity is key, as far as I&#039;m concerned, in getting people to do something about it!

Megan - I don&#039;t know where I&#039;d be without my yoga and meditation.  Truly have been lifesavers.

Chris - I know, there is a constant need to be busy.  And I&#039;ve become so aware of that, now it stresses me out when I&#039;m in the company of people who &quot;can&#039;t sit still!&quot;

Lance - Me, too. If I start my day rushed, then I&#039;m typically stressed for the rest of it, and that never feels good.

Darren - Wow, what a moment to share.  It&#039;s so important to be in tune with our own needs and our kids needs. I remember when my parents separated, no one asked us about our stress levels...and boy were they high.  And thank you for sharing some great tools with her. That is what it&#039;s all about. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Karl &#8211; Agreed, it&#8217;s not easy. In our fast paced lifestyles, taking a time out seems counterintuitive.  When really that&#8217;s what we need to do.  It is definitely part of work happiness!</p>
<p>Hi Evita &#8211; I know it&#8217;s the kids part that kills me too.  A shift, or wake up call is definitely needed to make any modifications or decrease stress (or turn it into the positive)</p>
<p>Tess &#8211; I love writing, too. My bookshelf is filled with journals!  Simplicity is key, as far as I&#8217;m concerned, in getting people to do something about it!</p>
<p>Megan &#8211; I don&#8217;t know where I&#8217;d be without my yoga and meditation.  Truly have been lifesavers.</p>
<p>Chris &#8211; I know, there is a constant need to be busy.  And I&#8217;ve become so aware of that, now it stresses me out when I&#8217;m in the company of people who &#8220;can&#8217;t sit still!&#8221;</p>
<p>Lance &#8211; Me, too. If I start my day rushed, then I&#8217;m typically stressed for the rest of it, and that never feels good.</p>
<p>Darren &#8211; Wow, what a moment to share.  It&#8217;s so important to be in tune with our own needs and our kids needs. I remember when my parents separated, no one asked us about our stress levels&#8230;and boy were they high.  And thank you for sharing some great tools with her. That is what it&#8217;s all about. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your story.</p>
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		<title>By: Darren Sproat</title>
		<link>http://staceyshipman.com/2009/11/06/stress-still-high-in-adults-and-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-133</link>
		<dc:creator>Darren Sproat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 03:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stacey,
It&#039;s incredible what asking a simple question of your 8-year old will result in.  I asked, &quot;Honey, are you feeling stressed about anything?&quot; and her answer, in a matter of fact fashion, was, simply, &quot;Yes, Daddy.&quot;   (Background - her Mom and I are going through a separation right now)

Once I got over the bluntness of the answer it was a great opportunity to share with her different ways for her to manage the stress - be it exercise, breathing, focusing thoughts, writing, or any number of other means.  It was a perfect opportunity for Daddy/daughter time.  She now knows that she doesn&#039;t need to hide the fact she is stressing over something and she has some tools that will help her manage that stress.

Wonderful post, Stacey...

Darren</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stacey,<br />
It&#8217;s incredible what asking a simple question of your 8-year old will result in.  I asked, &#8220;Honey, are you feeling stressed about anything?&#8221; and her answer, in a matter of fact fashion, was, simply, &#8220;Yes, Daddy.&#8221;   (Background &#8211; her Mom and I are going through a separation right now)</p>
<p>Once I got over the bluntness of the answer it was a great opportunity to share with her different ways for her to manage the stress &#8211; be it exercise, breathing, focusing thoughts, writing, or any number of other means.  It was a perfect opportunity for Daddy/daughter time.  She now knows that she doesn&#8217;t need to hide the fact she is stressing over something and she has some tools that will help her manage that stress.</p>
<p>Wonderful post, Stacey&#8230;</p>
<p>Darren</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 11:14:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stacey,
Your list is a great reminder - it can sometimes, in the heat of the moment, be something we (I) forget.  Taking a walk works well for me - or really - just getting away from whatever it is that&#039;s causing the stress.  Physically distancing myself from it (and distance doesn&#039;t have to be much) does wonders.  

For me too, a lot depend on how I start my day.  If I&#039;m able to start it in a manner that starts with some moments of quiet - it&#039;s like the rest of my day is lived in a very much lower-stress state.  

Great reminders!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stacey,<br />
Your list is a great reminder &#8211; it can sometimes, in the heat of the moment, be something we (I) forget.  Taking a walk works well for me &#8211; or really &#8211; just getting away from whatever it is that&#8217;s causing the stress.  Physically distancing myself from it (and distance doesn&#8217;t have to be much) does wonders.  </p>
<p>For me too, a lot depend on how I start my day.  If I&#8217;m able to start it in a manner that starts with some moments of quiet &#8211; it&#8217;s like the rest of my day is lived in a very much lower-stress state.  </p>
<p>Great reminders!!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Edgar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Edgar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 02:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Stacey -- yes, not having time to sit quietly is an ironic situation many people seem to think they&#039;re in.  One thing I think it&#039;s important to notice is that, even when we&#039;re on vacation or have some actual &quot;down time,&quot; many of us find ourselves still seeking out noise and stimulation.  The mind seems to naturally resist silence no matter how much time we have, but when we realize this at least the whole self-deception of &quot;I don&#039;t have time&quot; falls away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stacey &#8212; yes, not having time to sit quietly is an ironic situation many people seem to think they&#8217;re in.  One thing I think it&#8217;s important to notice is that, even when we&#8217;re on vacation or have some actual &#8220;down time,&#8221; many of us find ourselves still seeking out noise and stimulation.  The mind seems to naturally resist silence no matter how much time we have, but when we realize this at least the whole self-deception of &#8220;I don&#8217;t have time&#8221; falls away.</p>
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		<title>By: Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 15:59:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stacey, first of all I love that you plugged the Levity Project&#039;s awesome outing in Chicago. My gosh, that&#039;s just so exciting (and stress relieving!). 

As for stress, exercise has always helped me manage stress and keep a clearer head. On the opposite end of the spectrum, nightly meditation (before going to bed) also allows me to keep a clear head. Your post from awhile ago reminded me that I hadn&#039;t been meditating enough, and as a result, I recently downloaded some iTunes guided meditations to help break up the monotony of just sitting with my own thoughts. Guided meditations led by the right &quot;voice&quot; or person go a long way in keeping me grounded. 

Thanks for this important post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stacey, first of all I love that you plugged the Levity Project&#8217;s awesome outing in Chicago. My gosh, that&#8217;s just so exciting (and stress relieving!). </p>
<p>As for stress, exercise has always helped me manage stress and keep a clearer head. On the opposite end of the spectrum, nightly meditation (before going to bed) also allows me to keep a clear head. Your post from awhile ago reminded me that I hadn&#8217;t been meditating enough, and as a result, I recently downloaded some iTunes guided meditations to help break up the monotony of just sitting with my own thoughts. Guided meditations led by the right &#8220;voice&#8221; or person go a long way in keeping me grounded. </p>
<p>Thanks for this important post!</p>
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		<title>By: Tess The Bold Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tess The Bold Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 13:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stacey,
The last suggestion, writing it down works best for me. I&#039;ve always loved journaling and it&#039;s helped me gain many insights into relationships that are the most meaningful. 

Your and Katie&#039;s work are so needed today. I&#039;m not sure I know anyone who is dealing with some kind of stress these days. The solutions you give are simple but powerful!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stacey,<br />
The last suggestion, writing it down works best for me. I&#8217;ve always loved journaling and it&#8217;s helped me gain many insights into relationships that are the most meaningful. </p>
<p>Your and Katie&#8217;s work are so needed today. I&#8217;m not sure I know anyone who is dealing with some kind of stress these days. The solutions you give are simple but powerful!</p>
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		<title>By: Evita</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 03:15:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Stacey

Boy am I not surprised by those stats. You can really tell from people all around. 

I am so happy about the work you are doing in helping people deal effectively with their stress, that is a big bonus. But I also think as humanity in total we need a more aggressive shift in our thinking and lifestyles period.

It is one thing to hear about stressed adults, but my heart really aches when I hear about stressed children. They are picking up so much from their parents both directly and indirectly and it is just not fair. Through this they pick up such a disadvantage health wise - mentally, emotionally and physically for their later years. 

I definitely think more and more attention should be brought to this subject and not of course from the problem side of it, but as you present the solution side of it. There are many things we can all do to decrease stress, but first step is always seeing it or admitting it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Stacey</p>
<p>Boy am I not surprised by those stats. You can really tell from people all around. </p>
<p>I am so happy about the work you are doing in helping people deal effectively with their stress, that is a big bonus. But I also think as humanity in total we need a more aggressive shift in our thinking and lifestyles period.</p>
<p>It is one thing to hear about stressed adults, but my heart really aches when I hear about stressed children. They are picking up so much from their parents both directly and indirectly and it is just not fair. Through this they pick up such a disadvantage health wise &#8211; mentally, emotionally and physically for their later years. </p>
<p>I definitely think more and more attention should be brought to this subject and not of course from the problem side of it, but as you present the solution side of it. There are many things we can all do to decrease stress, but first step is always seeing it or admitting it.</p>
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		<title>By: Karl Staib - Work Happy Now</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karl Staib - Work Happy Now</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know I&#039;m stressed at various points in my day and I take about 30 minutes each day to deal with my stress. I&#039;m working on dealing with my stress on a more regular basis throughout my day. It&#039;s not easy.

I&#039;m working on staying in the now and focusing on my breath. The more that I bring myself back to the present moment the more awareness and ability to access my joy occurs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know I&#8217;m stressed at various points in my day and I take about 30 minutes each day to deal with my stress. I&#8217;m working on dealing with my stress on a more regular basis throughout my day. It&#8217;s not easy.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m working on staying in the now and focusing on my breath. The more that I bring myself back to the present moment the more awareness and ability to access my joy occurs.</p>
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